Dear Ophelia: Their is no point in loving a mercurial man like Hamlet. He never follows protocol and  is the farthest thing from quixotic. He is in a quagmire in the moment or an impasse if you will, he is lugubrious because of his father's death and he has no time to be thinking about you. Ask anyone, the consensus will be to forget about him and enter euphoria through hobbies or activities that will get your mind off of him. Hamlet is a patrician who needs to be sublimated because of his recent disbehaviors which is not a quality you would want in your lover. Just forget about him and move on with your life.
A Concerned Friend